Formal invitations will be sent in May 2026. Kindly respond by June 8, 2026.

We kindly request semi-formal attire for our wedding day. As a note, portions of our evening, including the ceremony and dinner service, will take place outdoors on a heated patio.

 For those able to join us on Friday for our Welcome Party, come as you are!

Due to the nature of the venue, our wedding weekend will be 21+.

While we love your children, we ask that you please make arrangements for their care in advance.

Yes! In your RSVP, you will have the opportunity to identify any restrictions or allergies so we can work with Gotts Roadside and The Charter Oak to ensure that everyone is able to safely break bread (or gluten free bread) together.

In addition to our recommendations for hotels and airports, we have provided some options for getting from the airport to your hotel. Please see “Travel to St. Helena” for airport transportation options and “Travel in St. Helena” for weekend transportation options.

As you are planning your weekend, please note that ride share services like Uber and Lyft are limited in the town of St. Helena after hours. For those planning to use ride share services for the evening events, we recommend booking an Uber Reserve or another pre-scheduled ride service to ensure a seamless transportation experience.

Our venues throughout the weekend both offer free parking onsite. If you plan to drive, please do so responsibly.

Unfortunately, we are unable to accommodate additional guests. We are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If our planning has included a guest in your party, your invitation will be made out to “{Your Name} & Guest.” Thank you for understanding!